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SUBMISSIONS: OPEN

Thank you for your interest in A Place of Our Own!

A Place of Our Own is an ongoing photo series documenting queer families in the South. Through editorial portraiture and storytelling, the project celebrates love, resilience, and domestic life while exploring how queerness and Southern identity coexist.

I’m currently inviting queer families and households across the South to take part. My goal is to celebrate how queer families live, love, and exist in their everyday spaces, whether quiet, chaotic, playful, or beautifully mundane.

How It Works

01 / Apply
Tell me about your family, your home, and the everyday life you share.

02 / We chat
If the project feels like a possible fit, we’ll have a relaxed conversation about your household, your story, and any questions.

03 / Plan the visit
Together, we’ll choose a date and talk through the rooms, routines, relationships, and small moments that feel meaningful to you.

04 / The session
The session is collaborative and unhurried. We’ll create a mix of intentional portraits and natural photographs of life as it actually feels in your space.

05 / Share
Along with the photographs, I’ll invite you to answer a short set of questions about your family, values, rituals, home, and experience of queer life in the South.

What to Know
Before Applying

I come to you.
I’m based in Charleston and travel throughout the South to photograph participating families in their own homes. Applying also helps me plan future travel.

Your home can look lived-in.
There is no need to redecorate, hide clutter, or make your home look perfect. The project is about real domestic life.

Applying is not a commitment.
Applying begins a conversation—it does not commit you to participating or guarantee a session. We only schedule after talking, confirming that the project feels right for everyone, and putting the details in writing.

 

Your Story. Your Safety. Your Choice.

Visibility matters, but so does privacy. Sharing your home, relationships, and personal life through photography requires trust. Before participating, we’ll discuss your comfort level, establish boundaries, and make sure you understand how your photographs may be used.

  • We’ll start with a conversation about your household, what you hope to share, and what you would like to keep private. We’ll talk through rooms, routines, relationships, and subjects that are off limits, along with the intended uses of the photographs. If children may participate, we’ll discuss permission with their parent or guardian and make space for each child’s comfort and willingness. Questions are welcome, and the details should be clear before you decide to take part.

  • Tell me which names, pronouns, relationships, locations, or other personal details you feel comfortable sharing—and which you do not. You can skip questions and raise concerns about identifying details in photographs, including children’s faces, school names, mail, or recognizable views of your home. We’ll discuss what is practical and agree on boundaries before sharing. Even without names or an exact location, a photograph or story may still be recognizable to someone who knows you; anonymity cannot be guaranteed.

  • Before taking part, we’ll discuss whether and how you’ll review the photographs and accompanying text, when that review would happen, and how to raise concerns. Please ask about anything that matters to you, including photographs of children, captions, and identifying details. Any review or approval arrangement needs to be agreed in advance; don’t assume that image review or final publication approval is included unless we’ve confirmed it together.

  • Please tell me if your comfort level changes. During the session, you can pause, stop, or revisit a boundary. If you have concerns afterward, get in touch so we can discuss the photographs, any consent or release terms we agreed to, and the options available at that stage. Changes or removal after publication cannot be promised. Once material is public, others may copy, download, screenshot, or share it, and removing an original cannot reliably remove copies, search results, or printed material already in circulation.

Start the Application

If this feels like a story you’d like to share, use the form below to tell me about your family. You can apply for yourself or recommend someone you know.

 

victor@victorlovesyou.com